I’m just back from
TedXManchester where I gave one of the most fascinating talk of my life.
The story of me came about in a conversation between myself and
Herb Kim a while ago. Herb was wondering if I might want to get involved in TedXManchester2. And somewhere along the line we talked about the possibility of someone from the BBC talking at the upcoming event. Anyway, in a roundabout way, we got around to talking about the possibility of talking about
mybrushwithdeath.
I think Herb was very surprised when I said I’d love to do it and we got talking to
Isabella from the Cornerhouse about the possibility. I remember that night because it was in Tai Wu and Herb ordered a bottle of Sake, which we never did quite finish
The presentation I’ve kept under wraps for a long while because I didn’t want to spoil it in advance and I’m only really known for giving presentations about
technology or
dating. I did show a couple of people who wasn’t going to be at Tedx, but generally it was a need to know bases.
So it went extremely well. All the comments I’ve seen on Twitter and Tedx chatroom have been pretty positive. Lots of people came up and said lovely things to me afterwards.
I know there was some criticism about being left in the room for 7 days but… remember I have no memory of anything, so it might have been I was actually wondering about but not right in the head, as the bleed was most likely happening from just after the election.
I’m glad I pretty much held it together, although when Herb did the introduction, I almost started to cry as he explained what happened from his point of view. As I took the steps, I thought there is no way I’m going to hold it together long enough, but I did – just… By my eyes, I hit the 18min mark almost dead on, which is great because that’s how long its taken when I did my test runs both times.
It was fantastic to tell my story on the scale of TedxManchester, and I really thank everyone for listening to my story, there is so much I cut out of the slides to make it fit including the problems I had in
Hope Hospital (which I got a official written sorry for), the story of how my sister and mortgage adviser (
Billie) saved my flat, the reaction to being told who won the general election and the whole
mydreamscape idea.
I don’t think I will need to ever tell the story again… I’m coming up to my 2nd year since the brush with death, and I’m feeling great (although very tired right now). I was going to add to the end of my presentation, the story continues…
I just know someone/some people out there was inspired by such a personal story and if that helps, my job was done.
Updated…
Of course I didn’t say anything about the other speakers at TedXManchester…

Mary Anne Hobbs gave a fantastic talk with no slides and no real prompt, amazing stuff. Its actually funny because I felt like her talk fitted really well with my own although we were hours apart. Passion is infectious…
Tara Shears really made particle physics sound quite simple and Tom Bloxham was quite likeable in what he was saying. I had a little chat with him about the New Islington area before the event started and he wasn’t as defensive about it as I thought it would be. Maybe he hears it all the time. Martins 12min talk asking why there isn’t a startup hub in Manchester was interesting and got me thinking about my plans for Smlworld.

Dan O’Hara and Brendan Dawes were great as you’d expect… But a massive shout must go to Herb & Isabella for putting the whole thing together and picking such great speakers to talk…

“Lastly and very sadly, one of our speakers for this evening – the BBC’s Ian Forrester – has been taken gravely ill. Ian’s a good friend to myself and many people in this room as well as being a global evangelist for the UK’s tech communities. I hope you’ll join us in hoping the big fella comes through this OK
” http://cl.ly/0e1x3l1C423Z2O1R3s1s
Oh Imran I’m sorry… I forgot about this but I did give you a mention and how you converted me to Islam while I was away… Also forgot to add it to the workload before the snap
Amazing slides Ian – hope you are doing well now.
very interesting story. I’m sorry I missed it – really looking forward to watching the video
Thanks Mishal, the video will have you in tears
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