It was my ex-wife Sarah who introduced me to Dan Savage many years ago. She use to listen to his radio show and podcasts about life and relationships. Ever since I have kept a ear out for his insightful notes on relationships and life.
Paying the price of admission is a fascinating idea.
…the personal sacrifices, large and small, that make long-term relationships possible. For some, the price of admission—what it costs to ride a particular ride—includes “taming one’s sexual desire for the sake of another.”
I would say this is the compromise, but it always sounds like a negative thing. And to be fair theres a lot of negativity towards compromises.
The price of admission sounds a lot more like a neutral and when ever I hear it, I think roller coasters and that can’t be a bad thing…. *smile*
The other thing I find fascinating about the price of admission is the notion of act as if or fake it till you make it.
…the idea is to go through the routines of life as if one were enjoying them, despite the fact that initially it feels forced, and continue doing this until the happiness becomes real. This is an example of a positive feedback loop.
Its makes clear sense when thinking about one person but is really interesting when thinking both people in a relationship is doing this for the benefit of their partner first and themselves secondly.
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Paying the Price of Admission and watching feedback loops working their magic http://t.co/RLiTkm7eOK
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