What happened to hobbies?

I noticed this trend around hobbies, in which I mean things you do and enjoy for the sake of enjoyment.

For example I enjoy Diaboloing and have done since a early age. It’s very common for me to bring my Diabolo on work trips and holidays. I am actually writing this on the train to the European juggling convention in the Netherlands.

However when people are me doing it, they assume I am doing it for a purpose of making money. Not necessarily right at that moment but for Instagram or tiktok or some captured social media nonsense. To be fair I do film myself but mainly for better understanding of where I am going wrong or capturing happy mistakes. There is a level of confusion when I say, I am sometimes posting to Pixelfed of course.

The video above and other things I have read, point to the mindset of productivity, hustle culture and capitalism ruins everything mentality. Not even your hobbies are safe from the latter. On the other hand, on the productivity side, it also points to a time poor society where people can’t afford the time to indulge in a personal hobby. Funny enough we talked about the first aspect a little in Techgrumps 3.28.

There is something about context collapse, which is key too. If all your hobbies centre around the smartphone for example, that is prime space for all those notifications and social media strings to pull on your attention, time and mind space. Hence you have more phones including a mode to limit the likes of Tiktok, Facebook, etc. I enjoy my phone but if everyone of my hobbies were on it, even I might struggle to manage the context collapse too.

You are seeing the smartphone in places it never was or should be?

For example I enjoy going to the spa/gym but I have noticed a trend of men in changing rooms, stand in front of the mirror flex and take a picture. Ok what really annoys me is the reflection may include me changing which is a straight up privacy problem. The gym does have some really crappy wi-fi (likely optimised for access to social networks) but almost zero 5G due to the sub-basement location. However I have seen men post their pictures and even a video to Instagram and WhatsApp stories. Its annoying but related to this blog is the need to share and the lack of personal achievement.

Hobbies were things you do for personal enjoyment, experience and mastery. They can be exciting, geeky and I would certainly add make you much more interesting as a person, due to the confidence they bring.. Which is certainly easy to link to the loneliness epidemic.

By the way, now back from the European juggling convention, which I did  enjoy once I found other diabolists. It was clear the people (mainly men) who cut themselves off into little cliques because they were potentially professionals and maybe doing it for a purpose of something more than enjoyment (there was a lot of filming, likely for instagram, etc). The session I ran attracted a range of people and none of the professionals attended, which was fine as we had a much better time without them.

Context collapse with Beeper

Beeper client with all the networks it can connect to

I have been meaning to write about context collapse with beeper for a long while. I have written about Beeper previously.. In short Beeper is a messaging client which takes advantage of Matrix’s bridge system to connect/bridge to many different networks.

This means I use Matrix every single day on my laptops and smartphones. Its great, as its connects to so many different networks including Discord and Slack, all without installing Slack or Discord on my phone and even laptop if I wanted to.

However there is a effect which is best described as (like) context collapse.

The amount of times I have received a message from someone on Linkedin, Facebook msg, Twitter direct message (which I don’t think works anymore – as you can imagine)., etc, etc. They all end up in my inbox and its super useful but sometimes I need to look at the little icon to then figure out what I should do next.

Should I treat it as serious, should I reply straight away or not worry too much. This is very apt when you are getting linkedin or twitter DMs. This is similar for Facebook messages.

It also affects the way you reply too, should I reply in my usual laidback style, should I add emojis, should I write a lot back, voice reply, etc etc.

Beeper descktop and mobile client running

It sounds stressful but actually I’m ok with it because the alternative of having lot of apps on my phone or laptop running would be far worst in my head. If there was a way to make the notifications per network that might be useful, but generally I’m ok with the context collapse, as the icons make it clear enough and force me to think.

This changes a bit when using my Android wear watch, which strips out such detail. So I generally don’t reply unless I know its from a friend or family. Although even that can be interesting as my mother is on sms & signal or a friend who is on sms, discord and facebook msg.

I kinda want to see a matrix bridge for activitypub (fediverse) but honestly with the amount of context collapse, I don’t think it would personally be a good idea for me.

Interested what others think about this all and would you like one client to do all your messages and potentially your social networking too?